We all are tired to hear the word ‘setting goal’. We don’t even bother this word anymore. And the reason is we think this is a process may be it will be our lifetime struggling. But the truth is totally different. Every ending was a start once. So start needs shaping our mind first. Let’s take it very simple. There are some prerequisite of setting goal. In simple words, first thing we need to do is giving time to ourselves. To find out our talent ….. People mess up because they think they need to sit alone and think deeply. No no , ease yourself. The more space we give ourselves more we are passionate about our dreams.
Whenever we plan to accomplish something, it’s all just a game of mind to control the body to carry out the dream.We never have enough time to read the success stories. We want everything done in one time that is of course impossible. As a result, we feel endlessly conflicted. To avoid it, Prioritize the goals and set first one we’re capable of doing right now. Make a plan and start implementing but what for hurdles? Don’t worry… Remember some points to enjoy an ultimate success.
We, as humans, are impatient. If we think something to do , we just start assuming to get it done very soon. That’s the major problem because it affects our PRODUCTIVITY.
We all have aims; big and small. Everyone tries to achieve all of them. Have you noticed why only few people are able to make their dreams come true?
The reason is so simple, they Focus on One thing at a time . They don’t show hurry behavior.
Why are we so impatient?
People come to celebrate your happy moments, support you in bad times but remember one thing, they will only be with you for a day or two not more than this.
No one would ask how you did make it possible ? How did you manage with your financial problems ? how did you do alone without anyone’s support? NO , you won’t be asked but people will definitely congratulate you just for formality.
Walking alone is really horrible, Oh yeah! it is. Consider standing where no one to see us, to help us, to give hand except FEARS which try to stop us to step forward , to walk alone.
Just remember one thing, we are not Alone wherever we go .. If we have no one around us there must be fears that can be our biggest enemy or our best companion.
Now what should be our reaction in that situation.
Let’s say you are rejected from an audition(anything goes) or an interview, In this situation what would be your reaction.
- May be you feel dump thinking “I’m rejected ,means I am not able to do so or other intelligent people deserve it”
- May be you feel neutral thinking “I don’t feel hurt or offended because I know I have strength to do so but I just got confused so couldn’t able to present my best but I haven’t lost my strength at all “
If someone supports us, that’s a great motivation. We feel blessed with supportive people but what if no one here for us? To listen us? Just make fun of us or our ideas, our plans?Isn’t it feeling really bad all the time. We can loose our motivation even quit following our dreams.
We are no less than Bill Gates or Steve jobs. They are also human like us then why we’re 100 steps back from them? the answer is “They didn’t wait for motivation because they had self confidence”.
We all are blessed with innate qualities and have full right to use them to achieve success and satisfaction.
Everyone wants to be counted among successful, prominent people but may be unable to do hard work like they do.
Well, it’s not written in fate who would be successful or who wouldn’t but it’s all about our determination and commitment.